Hi Entouraaj, I am thinking of ‘popping the question’ even though me and my girlfriend have only been dating for 4 months. What are your thoughts?
- Imran, Slough
There’s no easy answer to this question. This depends on so many things and without knowing much about either of you, I would suggest that it’s a good idea to first address the subject of marriage with her. See how she reacts to it and whether she’s ready to move onto the next phase of the relationship. She might only be comfortable accepting your proposal following consent from her family. The length of time you have been together is therefore less relevant. I assume that you are both mature and consenting adults, but in the event that you’re not, don’t do anything until you’ve spoken to your mum and dad!